Working with clients who are stuck in the blame cycle doesn't have to feel like pulling teeth!
Set Your Clients Free From The Blame Game:
With Ease!
Discover how you can bypass the mental gymnastics and get straight to the heart of the issue with The Blame Buster: a direct, non-personal approach that quickly and effectively empowers your clients to break free from the blame cycle.
Watch this important video to find out how you can become a Blame Buster so you can start effortlessly guiding your clients out of victimhood and back to their true power 👇🏻
Use the code "BUSTER" at checkout to get 80% Off!
Price £297 £59.40 (with coupon code)
Event takes place live on Zoom and will run twice:
Thur 3rd Oct 1pm-4:30pm | Fri 4th Oct 9am-12:30pm
(UK times)
Your ticket entitles you to attend either date.
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Bashing Your Head Against The Blame Game?
Have you ever felt like working with a client that's stuck in blame can feel like pulling teeth?
And would you love to find a way to help them that's easy on you and easy on them?
Then you're in the right place!
Blaming others for life's challenges is a common defence mechanism, but it's a heavy burden to carry.
It prevents growth, limits opportunities, and sabotages relationships.
And you know your clients deserve better, right?
The thing is, you’ve likely been taught to address blame by focusing on challenging negative thought patterns, building self-esteem, or exploring past traumas.
While these approaches can be valuable, they often require significant time and effort.
Your clients might resist these techniques, feeling defensive or overwhelmed - or they may just simply run a mile! Additionally, these methods can inadvertently reinforce the victim narrative by placing too much emphasis on past experiences. It can be frustrating when traditional facilitation, healing, and coaching tools seem to fall short.
As a coach, you’ve probably found yourself feeling frustrated and drained by clients stuck in a blame cycle and under the seductive spell of victimhood. It can be challenging to help them break through their defences, and sometimes their resistance can even feel like a personal attack.
You might find yourself over-explaining, justifying your approach, or even taking on their blame as your own to avoid conflict. Perhaps you've tried to force perspective shifts or offered endless solutions, only to hit a brick wall. It’s exhausting trying to pull someone out of a hole when they seem determined to dig deeper.
It doesn't have to be that way and, I'm guessing you're ready for something new; ready to:
Become A Blame Buster
Imagine a process that bypasses the mental gymnastics and gets straight to the heart of the issue.
That's what The Blame Buster does. It's a direct, non-personal approach that quickly and effectively returns the power to your client, in relation to their victim story. Breaking free from the blame game will be a natural and effortless consequence for clients you take through The Blame Buster process.
The Blame Buster programme will be teaching you The NPA Blame Frame™. The event combines teaching and practical exercises so you learn experientially. That means you'll gain the understanding and the confidence to use it skilfully with your clients. Plus, you'll get to clear your own victim stories and blame issues as you go.
I'm not overstating it when I say that this process is GOLD!
Breaking the victimhood spell and dropping the blame game will unleash an insane amount of energy and forward momentum in your client.
It can be easy for you and your clients will love you for it!
What Our Certified NPA Practitioners (and those in training) Love About The NPA Blame Frame™
At The Blame Buster event you'll be learning an advanced NPA tool called The NPA Blame Frame™. The only other place I teach this is in NPA Mastery (our NPA Practitioner certification programme). Amongst our Certified NPA Practitioners, this is one of the most loved NPA Frames. Here's some words of praise from a couple of them:
Beth Maertens-Poole
“Joel’s blame buster method is incredibly effective. I find that my clients feel very empowered to make new choices when they discover how blame is controlling their ability to make decisions.
If you want to break through your story of why you or your clients can’t do something, you will love how this simple blame buster process opens up the truth of possibility.
For example, I used the blame frame again today with a client and wow - again - thank you, Joel! It seems like we had been working on this issue for years (with other methods) and then bam! When she saw her game, the blame frame just busted the story and now she feels free to take action related to what she really wants to do.
As Joel says, this frame really is gold; it’s like magic how it is so outrageously simple when someone is ready to see the victim pattern. Joel's tools make working with people so much easier. Thank you!”
Charlotte Kanyi
“The Blame Frame™ is one of my favourite frames. I love how it takes you from a victimy blame story to a completely new paradigm. I feel it really sets you free in areas that can feel stuck and set in stone.
I use it fairly often with my clients. This frame can pour light and clarity onto a dynamic that you may have become so used to, you don’t even realise you are caught in a draining trap of blame. It can feel like this is truth and how it is. Then you do the frame and it is often revelationary.
From the very beginning you are invited to see yourself and your situation in a clear light that, although uncomfortable, is the first step to a lightness, freedom and joy that can seem totally incredible, and can change everything about the way you proceed in a situation.”
Clare Jackson
"The Blame Frame™ is a very cool way to unpick abdicated responsibility without ever even mentioning the R word.
I use this for myself and with clients in all sorts of situations and find it so insightful to reveal what I am, or my client, is attempting to avoid, and what is possible if that strategy is not available. It’s such a great enquiry especially if entered into in a spirit of curiosity and a willingness to be kind to oneself in the stages of revelation.
At a time when there is so much global unrest, there’s a multitude of people/institutions/situations we could blame for the way things are. Exploring that territory through the lens of The Blame Frame™ can bring great insight into how we can positively claim back some personal agency to allow solutions to emerge.
I highly recommend taking this amazing opportunity to work with Joel, the Creator and Custodian of NPA; he’s a Maestro at this work bringing kindness and compassion and a lightness of touch.
You’ll learn a very different way of helping clients move through their pain, you’ll laugh (occasionally cry) and will leave having shifted around the issue, and with an insight into the power, possibility and magic of NPA."
Your Ticket Will Give You:
- Full instructions on how to use The NPA Blame Frame™ with hands on experience and live coaching so you can feel confident to use it with your clients.
- Help your clients end the blame game so they can reclaim their power and gain forward momentum on their healing journey.
- Know how to handle your client's seduction by their victim story so they're ready to let it go.
- Learn how to uncover the identification that holds their blame in place without getting side-tracked or caught up in dead-end analysis.
- Discover how to expose and transcend your clients' core avoidance in a way that doesn't trigger resistance or defence so they can completely shift their paradigm and step into their power.
- These tools will help you work through any of your persistent blame games so you become freer in your practice and feel more confident and empowered when faced with challenging clients.
- All downloadable worksheets via email so you can have the notes to hand whenever you need them.
Plus As A Bonus:
You'll get access to all the recordings via our online portal so you can review the course at anytime and on any of your devices.
This class combines teaching and practical exercises so you learn experientially. That means you'll gain understanding and the confidence to use it skilfully with your clients. Plus, you'll get to clear your own blame issues as you go.
The Blame Frame™ is such an amazingly quick intervention when clients get caught in their victim story; it's a tool I use regularly with clients.
Blame is a core experience which can be a debilitating block on any healing journey and this NPA Frame makes navigating it so easy.
If you're a healer, therapist, coach or do any kind of change work with clients then this is an incredible tool to add to your skillset.
You don't need to be a professional to use what you learn. This class will give you everything you need to end the blame games in your own life.
Use the code "BUSTER" at checkout to get 80% Off!
Price £297 £59.40 (with coupon code)
Event takes place live on Zoom and will run twice:
Thur 3rd Oct 1pm-4:30pm | Fri 4th Oct 9am-12:30pm
(UK times)
Your ticket entitles you to attend either date.
Coupon Expires at Midnight on Sep 22nd, that's in just:
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